XO Erotica

Tips for Giving Head
Part-2-of-2
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Usually at this point you’ve got one hand lifting his cock by the tip, and the other’s not really doing much, which leads us to the question of what to do with your hands. If you’re lucky enough to have a big man, your hands will be very useful because they will be the only way to stimulate the base of his cock. Wrap your hand around the base of his shaft and stroke the part that you can’t fit into your mouth. You can do the same thing if you want to concentrate on his head with your lips and tongue.
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If you’re at a loss at what to do, you could always play with yourself. I’ve sucked off a lot of guys who loved to look down and see me sucking hard on their cock while I tweaked and pulled both my nipples. If you’re planning to blow this guy again, be sure to show him the wet spot you leave behind because you got so turned on sucking on his big, beautiful, hard cock.
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By now you should have a big, hard cock in your mouth (you lucky thing!) and your man’s full attention. As far as I can tell, the consensus seems to be that sloppy is better. You want to leave a shiny layer all over him, so make sure that you’re not dehydrated before you start so you can generate plenty of spit. He’ll love the idea that you drool at the thought of sucking him off, and I’m told it feels better. This is also an area where fingering yourself gives you an advantage. You can use your own juices to lube him up, supplementing his pre-cum and your saliva. You might have seen this in porn (or maybe real life, who knows?) girls spitting at cocks. This is something I personally find a bit weird, but if a guy asked for it I’d do it. What I find sexier is nestling him between my boobs and sort of dribbling on him. Anything that misses I just wipe off my breasts onto his cock.
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Speaking of this kind of thing, I’ve been with guys who’ve asked for a tit-fuck, and I’m usually happy to oblige. I think with this kind of thing the turn-on is more visual than anything else, so be sure to look up at him with your sexy eyes and make a real show of sliding your boobs up and down his hard-on. Rather than waste saliva on this (it’s hard to make enough) I recommend you get some lube. If it doesn’t make you feel silly, a bit of dirty talking wouldn’t be amiss. One thing I do like is rubbing a guy’s cock over my nipples. In fact I love to tell a man how wonderful his cock is as I rub it over my skin, face, breasts, nipples, through my hair. I think it’s because it feels a bit naughty.
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On the subject of talking, I have this to say: if you can talk to the guy, it’s not a blowjob. Your mouth should be full most of the time. Don’t get me wrong; hand-jobs are great, especially at the end. I love to watch a cock twitch and pump a big load of cum at me, watch it fly towards me, and feel it splatter on my skin. If you’re giving head, however, there needs to be lots of contact between your mouth and his cock. If you want to talk to him, do it between deep sucks of his cock. For example, ask him how it feels, then bury him in your mouth while he groans his ecstatic response, then pop him out again and tell him you love it too. Also, give him the impression talking is secondary to sucking by not answering him immediately. If he asks you a yes/no question, don’t even take him out of your mouth, just answer with an “Uh-huh” with your mouth full.
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In terms of incoherent noises, I would advise you not to fake sexual pleasure because most guys won’t buy it if you fake an orgasm while blowing them. If you do want to make some sort of moan, think more of eating a delicious chocolate dessert rather than being skillfully fingered. Of course, if you’re going to cum for real, just let it out, and if you’re playing with yourself (or he’s playing with you), respond to that too. The noises he really wants to hear are the ones that show how hard you’re working — the sucking, slurping, popping noise of a girl trying as hard as she can to drink her man’s cum!
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If you talk to him, don’t try to be too clever. Remember that most of his blood is not in his brain anymore. When I first see the guys cock, I like to complement it. Maybe tell him it’s big, hot, hard, beautiful, whatever’s not too blatant a lie. If you really can’t complement its appearance, give it a good licking or sucking and then tell him it’s delicious. In fact, tell him that regardless. During the course of the blowjob you can reinforce the message by repeating it. You could also tell him how much you love what you’re doing, or how turned on you are (don’t lie about this, he might check). If this is just stage one of the lovemaking, tell him what you look forward to doing next. If he’s a stranger you’ve picked up, you could tell him that you never do this but you find him irresistible. At the end, it’s usually a good idea to give the guy permission and encouragement. It’s nice to let him know you want to swallow, or take it on your face, or whatever. If there’s something you don’t want, tell him you do want something else, so instead of, “Don’t you dare cum in my mouth, you perve,” he hears, “I want it all over my tits, you big stud.” If you don’t want the cum on you, tell him you want to watch him shoot, then point his cock past you.
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As far as technique goes, I think it comes pretty naturally. You’re mimicking intercourse using your mouth, essentially. The difference is teeth, tongue, and the ‘fact’ that good girls don’t do it. Lots of guys are freaked out by teeth in blowjobs, some guys like it. You could ask, but I prefer to let him ask me for it. Generally, just use your teeth either to scrape gently over the shaft, or to kind of grip the head at the back and pull, once again, gently. The tongue is a whole other matter. You need to use it. I don’t have a tongue piercing because I like my teeth and don’t want them chipped or ground down, but apparently this really does make a difference. Your tongue should slither around him, wrapping itself around the head, sliding along the shaft. Your technique will vary depending on the length of your tongue. A favorite among guys seems to be sticking your tongue out to lick his balls while his cock is buried in your mouth, but unless he’s miniscule you’ll need to control your gag reflex.
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Now, guys love going down your throat, feeling the head of their cock bump the back of your throat, which is something I blame on porn. I personally have a gag reflex, so I can’t do the relentless throat-fucking thing you see in movies, and I don’t think there’s anything sexy about puking. If you’re with someone who wants to make you throw up, make sure you get most of it on him. This deep-throat thing is OK as long as you’re in control, though. Once again, it’s probably because it feels naughty, but it can be a real turn-on to go as far down his cock as you can. I think guys actually prefer it if you gag a little bit, pop up for air, then dive straight back onto them, rather than either the professional ‘I can do this all night’ thing or if you go too hard and spend minutes coughing. If a guy grabs your head and you’re not one of those girls who likes that, or if you don’t trust this particular guy, take his hands and move them down to your nipples. Then suck him as deep and as hard as you can to show that there are no hard feelings.
. at a loss as far as technique goes, get some porn and try anything you see that you like. What’s even more fun is to get some porn, then watch it with your man and give him what he sees on screen (maybe a good idea to check the movie on your own first to avoid nasty surprises). Guys love it if you can give them exactly the same rhythm and action as the slut on screen.
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After doing your thing for a while, he’ll be getting ready to unload for you. If you’re a bit inexperienced and can’t tell, he’ll start to do something different. Lots of guys start to thrust at you, which means they want you to use their rhythm rather than yours so go with that; some guys go still, so basically don’t let that freak you out; some guys start talking more, or get less coherent and more grunting. If he starts saying, “I’m gonna cum, I’m gonna cum,” over and over, he’s probably a little way off and needs some help, which you can provide by popping him out of your mouth and begging for a big load.
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You’ll learn to read the signs pretty easily. When he cums, his pelvic muscles all squeeze up to shoot the semen out of him and this means that his balls will clinch up and his shaft will twitch. Then you’ll find yourself with a jet of hot cum to deal with, and you should think about how you’re going to do that well before it happens.
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Personally, I think cum tastes fantastic, I’d buy it in bottles if I could so obviously I have no problem swallowing it. If you do, if the guy’s a regular, I suggest that you try to change the taste. No, he can’t get his sperm to taste like chocolate by eating chocolate (As far as I know). HOWEVER, a guy can change the flavor of his sperm depending on what he eats. If he avoids drinking coffee and smoking, and limits his dairy and red meat, it helps. Adding more fruits and vegetables, especially pineapple and citrus to his diet and his cum should start tasting sweet.
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Until the taste improves, I suggest two things. First of all, catch it on your skin, and then rub it in like a lotion. It’s sexy without you needing to taste it. Secondly, try to acquire a taste for it, because there are some fun places you can blow a man where you don’t want to leave a mess (your car, for example).
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Some guys want to cum on you (usually face or breasts after a blowjob), which might be their way of marking you or something.
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Whatever it is, there’s not much reason not to let them if you’re in private. If you’re in public (or about to be), maybe consider just how bad the consequences could be, although chances are people won’t really notice much. One of the sexiest things I’ve ever done was to blow a random guy first thing in the morning at university, have him wipe his cock in my hair, and then walk around all day being able to smell the faint aroma of cock in my hair. None of my girlfriends commented, so I assume they didn’t notice, but I was so turned on I had to go and buy some more panties at lunchtime.
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To give a man the best of both worlds, do one of these, then the other. Have him cum on you, then scoop it up and eat it, or collect his cum in your mouth and dribble it all over yourself. I have a friend who likes to ‘accidentally on purpose’ get a few dribbles on her clothes to make herself look and feel sluttier.
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Once you finish, don’t forget to thank him. he’ll thank you, but won’t expect thanks back. If he’s a regular of yours tell him you have so much fun you need to do it more often. If he’s more of a one-time thing then tell him you’d love to do it again.
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I hope all this helps. Please remember to be safe, and that nobody has the right to force you to do something you don’t want to do.
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